{"id":7586,"date":"2020-11-13T01:13:09","date_gmt":"2020-11-13T06:13:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/flevy.com\/blog\/?p=7586"},"modified":"2020-11-11T18:15:22","modified_gmt":"2020-11-11T23:15:22","slug":"conflict-resolution-tips-for-your-remote-team","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/flevy.com\/blog\/conflict-resolution-tips-for-your-remote-team\/","title":{"rendered":"Conflict Resolution Tips for Your Remote Team"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-7587\" src=\"https:\/\/flevy.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/pexels-photo-3861961-300x200.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" srcset=\"https:\/\/flevy.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/pexels-photo-3861961-300x200.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/flevy.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/pexels-photo-3861961.jpeg 500w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/>In addition to the obvious \u201cin the now\u201d importance of conflict resolution, good practices can also lead to other things that help the bottom line in the long run. As the old adage goes, \u201cthe people you work with make the job\u201d and being able to solve personnel issues increases employee retention and lessens time periods for onboarding and training.<\/p>\n<p>With COVID-19 lockdowns, many companies who didn\u2019t formerly utilize a remote work platform now are, but no matter if managing a remote team is a new task or something your company has done for years, action regarding <a href=\"https:\/\/online.rider.edu\/blog\/conflict-resolution-in-the-workplace\/\">conflict resolution in the workplace<\/a> needs to be taken swiftly and respectfully to all parties involved. Here are some tactics you can use to achieve those goals.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Compromise<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>This is something we\u2019ve been taught since pre-school, but can still be a bit difficult to grasp at times, especially when team members are passionate about how they want something done. If a given conflict is between two team members with relatively similar amounts of pull, a mediator is almost always needed to allow cooler heads to prevail. Compromise shows appreciation for both parties, and allows each to feel like they were heard.<\/p>\n<p>Compromise does take evaluation, and at times you will determine that one side is right and one is not, thus not really allowing for compromise as a means of successful resolution. In these instances, it\u2019s important to let the \u201closing\u201d party know how important they are and thank them for things they brought to the table in the past while letting them down easy. Akin to nurses having to deliver bad news to patients, good therapeutic communication makes bad news easier to swallow.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Encourage Forgiveness<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>It may seem elementary, but after a conflict is \u201cresolved,\u201d there are almost always lingering effects between the two (or more) conflicting parties, and bringing those parties together to say sorry and bury the proverbial hatchet is a key in avoiding future conflict between said parties. In the brick-and-mortar workplace, a nice cup of coffee can usually serve as a backdrop for an apology rendezvous, and the face-to-face aspect is important so ensuring your remote members are actually seeing the apologies (Zoom, Google Meet, etc.), rather than sending an email that could be perceived as disingenuous, is important.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Don\u2019t <em>Discourage <\/em>Conflict<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Though it\u2019s probably a bad practice to tell everyone to argue, discouraging disagreements is also a bad practice and will result in less ideas shared, and ultimately a lesser-motivated workforce. \u201cDon\u2019t get upset about being upset\u201d is a nice mantra when it comes to dealing with workplace conflict. Conflict resolution is important, but complete avoidance is generally not good for the company, as a whole. <a href=\"https:\/\/taxandbusinessonline.villanova.edu\/blog\/guide-to-effective-leadership\/\">Good leaders know this<\/a> and will encourage employees to discuss differences and find a middle ground.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Facilitate Bonding<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Many remote companies\u2019 employees are spread across the globe, making a Friday afternoon escape room team-building exercise pretty hard to come by. Zoom meetings revolving around fun instead of work, however, are not difficult to set up, and there are many team-building activities that can be done over an internet connection. Board games can be played, even things like \u201cshow-and-tell\u201d with coveted household items opens up the personal side of an otherwise-business relationship and will <a href=\"https:\/\/online.regiscollege.edu\/blog\/4-methods-for-increasing-communication-within-applied-behavior-analysis\/\">increase communication<\/a> with work-related things as well.<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019ve already noticed some rifts between certain team members, creating team problem-solving contests that involve breaking away from the main cyber meeting and teaming up in smaller groups is a great way to \u201cforce\u201d said rift-havers into working together.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Training<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Finally, training your team on these methods is also a way to take some burden off your own shoulders and allow grown men and women to try to fix their issues themselves. Certainly there will be times where that is just not possible, and then you can step in and turn these tips into actions!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In addition to the obvious \u201cin the now\u201d importance of conflict resolution, good practices can also lead to other things that help the bottom line in the long run. As the old adage goes, \u201cthe people you work with make the job\u201d and being able to solve personnel issues increases employee retention and lessens time&hellip;&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/flevy.com\/blog\/conflict-resolution-tips-for-your-remote-team\/\" rel=\"bookmark\"><span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Conflict Resolution Tips for Your Remote Team<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":17,"featured_media":7587,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"neve_meta_sidebar":"","neve_meta_container":"","neve_meta_enable_content_width":"","neve_meta_content_width":0,"neve_meta_title_alignment":"","neve_meta_author_avatar":"","neve_post_elements_order":"","neve_meta_disable_header":"","neve_meta_disable_footer":"","neve_meta_disable_title":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7586","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-general"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/flevy.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7586","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/flevy.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/flevy.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/flevy.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/17"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/flevy.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7586"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/flevy.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7586\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":7588,"href":"https:\/\/flevy.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7586\/revisions\/7588"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/flevy.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/7587"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/flevy.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7586"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/flevy.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7586"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/flevy.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7586"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}